Ladies and little girls, its time I break some things down for you. Clearly females still haven’t picked up on the fact that guys sometimes just aren’t as interested as you think they are. So I just wanted to drop a few hints, for the clueless, the desperate, the attention-seeking, the confused, and the overconfident chicks that make excuses for the guys they’re involved with.
1. If you’re calling him, and he’s only answering half of the time, or hardly at all, he’s probably not interested, or has many other women he’s dealing with.
2. If you find that you’re always the first one to call him daily, or that you’re always the one sending the “good morning/wake up” message/call to start your day, it is not because he is still asleep. It is because you’re not on his mind when he wakes up in the morning.
3. If you pretty much only receive calls from him when you’ve called or texted him first, and he’s returning your call, obviously he feels that he has better things to do. But, at least he made a little effort in calling back. Two points for that.
4. If you have been dealing with the same guy for a really long time, and he always has an excuse on why he doesn’t want a girlfriend, or why you guys can’t be together, it’s because he doesn’t want YOU as a girlfriend. Especially if he’s had girlfriends since he’s dealt with you. And please don’t let the “I think I might wanna be with you one day” lines fool you. If it hasn’t happened yet, it won’t happen, or it will obviously be last resort.
5. If you find yourself starting drama and always trying to outdo another chick that your guy is dealing with, it’s time to stop competing and find a man that’s really into you. “Knowing the game and how to play it” is just a euphemism for “I’m gonna keep trying to do everything I can in a desperate attempt for him to notice me and/or keep me around”. That’s no way for a woman to live. We’re all too old to be playing “the game”, and shouldn’t have to play it to get the attention you want.
6. If you find yourself going look at another chick’s myspace, facebook profile just because they’re dealing with your guy too, it’s time to quit being obssessive and creepy, and find a hobby.In some circumstances, it may be necessary, like if you’re the girlfriend trying to investigate, but not if the guy won’t even give you a title. That’s pitiful. And even when you’re in a relationship, if you have reason to go investigating, you may want to evaluate the situation you’re in.
7. If you have to try and broadcast your relationship or situation to the world, then you’re trying way too hard. Putting pictures up of guys and making comments and statements so everyone will know you’re sleeping with him is just plain sad. We are human, we’re not dogs that have to mark our territory. Especially if it’s somebody else’s man, or if they have nothing on their page that represents how special you are to them. Oh and changing your guys page and deleting other girl’s pictures off is really sad and pitiful. Pictures dont even mean much to guys, and from what I was told recently, guys know that girls like to claim territory and do sad things like that, and that it only makes them look “desperate and foolish”. And “a real woman doesn’t have to show the world she’s chilling with somebody, because they would have that girlfriend title if they were special enough”.
8. If you find yourself always making excuses for why you’re not with someone, and saying things like ” I dont really want to be with him”, or “I dont want a man right now”, STOP LYING TO YOURSELF. Girls don’t sleep with guys for a long time cater to their ego, and do things to please him without hope that they will one day be their woman. Be real about the situation.
9.If you find that you’re always having to send text messages about sex, and how horny you are to get a guy’s attention, stop embarrassing yourself. Guys laugh at those texts, and from what I learned recently, it’s not sexy to them, unless you’re their main girl. Otherwise you look like the trashy booty call girl….that you just very well may be to them.
10. If you’re the one making the most effort to see the guy, and you find yourself always trying to convenience him and cater to him, and you have never been his girl, stop playing yourself, and find somebody that wants to do those things for you. Of course, the guy is loving the attention, but it lets a guy know that you’re willling to do anything he wants without the title, therefore he knows that he’ll never have to make you his girl.
If any of these things applies to you, it’s time to make a change, and pray for a man that you don’t have to be a fool for. If you get offended by this blog, congratulations, self-realization is a big step toward self improvement.
1. If you’re calling him, and he’s only answering half of the time, or hardly at all, he’s probably not interested, or has many other women he’s dealing with.
2. If you find that you’re always the first one to call him daily, or that you’re always the one sending the “good morning/wake up” message/call to start your day, it is not because he is still asleep. It is because you’re not on his mind when he wakes up in the morning.
3. If you pretty much only receive calls from him when you’ve called or texted him first, and he’s returning your call, obviously he feels that he has better things to do. But, at least he made a little effort in calling back. Two points for that.
4. If you have been dealing with the same guy for a really long time, and he always has an excuse on why he doesn’t want a girlfriend, or why you guys can’t be together, it’s because he doesn’t want YOU as a girlfriend. Especially if he’s had girlfriends since he’s dealt with you. And please don’t let the “I think I might wanna be with you one day” lines fool you. If it hasn’t happened yet, it won’t happen, or it will obviously be last resort.
5. If you find yourself starting drama and always trying to outdo another chick that your guy is dealing with, it’s time to stop competing and find a man that’s really into you. “Knowing the game and how to play it” is just a euphemism for “I’m gonna keep trying to do everything I can in a desperate attempt for him to notice me and/or keep me around”. That’s no way for a woman to live. We’re all too old to be playing “the game”, and shouldn’t have to play it to get the attention you want.
6. If you find yourself going look at another chick’s myspace, facebook profile just because they’re dealing with your guy too, it’s time to quit being obssessive and creepy, and find a hobby.In some circumstances, it may be necessary, like if you’re the girlfriend trying to investigate, but not if the guy won’t even give you a title. That’s pitiful. And even when you’re in a relationship, if you have reason to go investigating, you may want to evaluate the situation you’re in.
7. If you have to try and broadcast your relationship or situation to the world, then you’re trying way too hard. Putting pictures up of guys and making comments and statements so everyone will know you’re sleeping with him is just plain sad. We are human, we’re not dogs that have to mark our territory. Especially if it’s somebody else’s man, or if they have nothing on their page that represents how special you are to them. Oh and changing your guys page and deleting other girl’s pictures off is really sad and pitiful. Pictures dont even mean much to guys, and from what I was told recently, guys know that girls like to claim territory and do sad things like that, and that it only makes them look “desperate and foolish”. And “a real woman doesn’t have to show the world she’s chilling with somebody, because they would have that girlfriend title if they were special enough”.
8. If you find yourself always making excuses for why you’re not with someone, and saying things like ” I dont really want to be with him”, or “I dont want a man right now”, STOP LYING TO YOURSELF. Girls don’t sleep with guys for a long time cater to their ego, and do things to please him without hope that they will one day be their woman. Be real about the situation.
9.If you find that you’re always having to send text messages about sex, and how horny you are to get a guy’s attention, stop embarrassing yourself. Guys laugh at those texts, and from what I learned recently, it’s not sexy to them, unless you’re their main girl. Otherwise you look like the trashy booty call girl….that you just very well may be to them.
10. If you’re the one making the most effort to see the guy, and you find yourself always trying to convenience him and cater to him, and you have never been his girl, stop playing yourself, and find somebody that wants to do those things for you. Of course, the guy is loving the attention, but it lets a guy know that you’re willling to do anything he wants without the title, therefore he knows that he’ll never have to make you his girl.
If any of these things applies to you, it’s time to make a change, and pray for a man that you don’t have to be a fool for. If you get offended by this blog, congratulations, self-realization is a big step toward self improvement.
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